Make Valentines’ Day Less Special To Her
If any of you weekend were probably out at the last minute buying fresh roses and candy and stuffed animals of all sorts for your wife/girlfriend/side piece/jumpoff to help bring in a fake holiday.
I call it the Valentines’ Day Trap. Fellas, don’t fall into it.
Society has trapped us into thinking that we will need to a special day to recognize how much we love our significant other. I call bullsh*t on that one. It’s a bullsh*t holiday.
Women look forward to Valentines Day every year, looking pitiful and tired as they look forward for the plans they will make with their man to go to dinner and dancing. They’ll get dressed up and ready to go out as if the government is going to ban salsa dancing on February 15.
Valentines’ Day is a superficial holiday designed to suck the life and money out of a man. So to counteract this, I have a recommendation for you fellas (and ladies too):
Make every other day more special.
This isn’t a cop out or a soft post designed for the ladies; I don’t do soft. I’m not taking their side. Remember, I ride for the fellas, and I’m just trying to help you keep a happy home. A man has to realize that in order to keep a happy relationship, he can’t just wait for the holidays and stock up on chocolates. A simple “thank you” note for picking up your dry cleaning on the way home or sending flowers to her office for no particular reason will do wonders.
I’m no relationship expert (as I’ve said before, I’ve been divorced), but I know enough that if you have a good woman to appreciate her. I’ve always given you the real fellas, so you know if it’s coming from these lips, you might want to consider it.
You don’t want to be that guy who waits until it’s too late to find out that he’s had a good thing all along.
Just something to think about fellas. Feel free to comment.





I don’t do Valentine’s Day. I think it’s cheesy and a waste of time. Love me everyday and thank me ever so often. I think women ought to do the same for men also.
Really? Can I get this notarized? I’m glad there is a female out there that realizes how this commercializes a relationship. Spread the word to your kind.
Valentine’s Day is a trap. I mean I’ve been okay spending it by myself or with my mini me. I agree with Ms. Nikks..it should be an everyday thing.
Wow! Two of you. If we could have you both cloned and remove that “put down the toilet seat” gene, there wouldn’t be an unhappy relationship anywhere.
Or tell them you don’t celebrate pagan holidays!
If it will get me out of the roses and candy thing, I’ll go with that.